The holiday season can be a whirlwind! Amidst the festive gatherings and family celebrations, it’s important to take a moment to observe how your aging parents are managing their daily lives. This time together provides a valuable opportunity to assess their well-being and determine if they could benefit from additional support. Here’s what to keep an eye on:

1. Home Environment:

• Maintenance: Is the house clean and in good condition, or are there signs of neglect like uncollected mail or unfinished chores?
• Meals: Are they eating balanced meals, or is the refrigerator bare? Look for expired food or signs they’re struggling with meal preparation.
• Personal Care:  Pay attention to their appearance. Are they keeping up with bathing and dressing?

2. Daily Activities:

• Mobility: Notice how they move around the house. Are they experiencing difficulty with stairs, getting in and out of chairs, or walking short distances?
• Medications: Ensure they’re managing their medications effectively. Are pill boxes organized, or are medications scattered and possibly missed?
• Cognitive Function: Are they engaged in conversations, remembering appointments, and handling finances without issues? Watch for signs of confusion or forgetfulness.

3. Social and Emotional Well-being:

• Interaction: Are they actively participating in conversations and family activities, or are they withdrawn?
• Mood: Be mindful of changes in their mood, such as increased sadness, anxiety, or irritability.
• Interests: Are they still enjoying their favorite hobbies and interests?

4. Safety:

• Driving: If they’re still driving, pay attention to their driving habits. Are they alert and confident on the road?
• Falls: Inquire about any recent falls or near falls. Are they unsteady or having difficulty with balance?
• Home Hazards: Identify potential hazards in the home, such as loose rugs or clutter, that could increase their risk of falls.

Next Steps:

The holidays are a joyous time, but they can also highlight subtle changes in our aging parents’ abilities. By being observant and proactive, you can help ensure they receive the support they need to live fulfilling lives.

Need guidance on senior living options or how to best support your aging parents? We’re here to assist you. Contact us today.

Moving to a senior living community is an exciting time! It’s a chance to simplify your life, meet new people, and enjoy new experiences without the worries of home maintenance. But packing for this transition can be a daunting task. This room-by-room guide will help you pack smart and ensure you bring all the essentials to your new home.

Bedroom:

• Wardrobe:  Pack your favorite everyday clothes, comfortable pajamas, and a few outfits for special occasions.
• Bedding: Bring your most comfortable sheets, blankets, pillows, and a mattress pad to ensure a good night’s sleep in your new surroundings.
• Personal Touches: Make your new space feel like home by bringing photos of loved ones, cherished artwork, and décor items that you enjoy.
• Nightstand Necessities:  An alarm clock, a reading lamp, and a nightlight are always helpful.
• Important Documents:  Keep important documents like your ID, insurance information, medical records, and financial paperwork organized and easily accessible.

Bathroom:

• Toiletries: Pack all your toiletries together in one box: shampoo, conditioner, soap, toothbrush, medications, eyeglasses, etc.
• Keep it Accessible:  Don’t pack this box in the moving truck! Keep it with you for easy access on moving day. Don’t pack this box in the moving truck! Keep it with you for easy access on moving day.
• Bathroom Essentials: Pack a soap dish, toothbrush holder, non-slip bath mat, and a wastebasket.
• Comfort Items: Bring bath towels, a cozy bathrobe, and non-slip slippers for your comfort.

Living Room:

• Create a Comfortable Space: Pack your favorite throw blankets, lamps, and furniture, including a sofa or loveseat, recliner, coffee table, and end tables.
• Entertainment: Bring along your favorite books, magazines, games, and craft supplies. Don’t forget your electronics like your TV, radio, laptop/tablet, and cell phone.
• Cherished Memories: Display your treasured family photos, keepsakes, and décor that brings you joy.

Kitchen:

• Dining In: A few sets of dishes, cutlery, and glassware will be useful for enjoying meals and snacks in your new apartment.
• Small Appliances: A coffee maker or toaster oven can be convenient for preparing simple meals or beverages.
• Pantry Staples: Be sure to pack your favorite coffee, tea, and snacks!

Tips for a Smooth Move:

• Downsize with Purpose: Before packing, take the time to declutter and donate or discard items you no longer need or use.
• Pack What You Need:  Instead of sorting your entire house, walk through each room and choose what you truly want, need, and have space for in your new home.
• Label Clearly: Labeling boxes by room will simplify the unpacking process.
• “First Night” Box: Pack a separate box with essential items like toiletries, medications, a change of clothes, and a phone charger.

Ready to experience senior living? Schedule a tour at The Village at The Triangle! We’re excited to show you around and answer any questions you may have about making our community your new home.